An Update in Photos

Miss Addy had her evaluation for PT and OT and we are happy to report that she is right where she needs to be! They are not recommending treatment right now, just check ins every 3 months to assess her progress and determine if she needs more services! So proud of our tough cookie! 

The husband left and returned to us after two weeks away and we all survived without him...barely. 

Our big boy has made amazing progress in Preschool, and was even awarded the Super Friend award for helping a friend feel better when she was sad! When we asked him how he made her feel better, he said, "I gave her three smooches!"

Addy continues to be our monster child, most recently figuring out how to escape from her bed. I'll be blaming all of my grey hairs on this one.

Everyone came down with a cold, so we've spent the last week doing anything and everything to make the kids feel better. Even resorting to lollipops in the bath tub. Desperate times call for desperate measures. 

And finally, we are relocating. Packing it all up, loading it into a truck, and making our way back to Ohio where the hubby accepted a new job. The weird part? We are moving to the town I went to high school in. The feelings are mixed, but I'm excited to be closer to friends and my family! Just hoping this move is more beneficial than problematic...time will tell. 

Alone at Last!

We are finally getting back to our usual routine and schedule after a whole week of visitors. You know how it is, having visitors starts off as a good idea and slowly turns into a circus act of spinning plates and trying to keep them all going. You have to keep the visitors happy, while trying to keep some semblance of order and a glimpse of your normal routine intact. It's fun and frustrating all wrapped up in a big box with a bow of exhaustion on top! To say we are happy to have things wind down and have our place to ourselves again would be an understatement.

Addy had another awesome week of therapy with both PT and OT. She has met all of the twelve month milestones, which means she is officially caught up...I'm a proud mama! We are going to continue PT once a week for a few more weeks, and then back it down to twice a month. That means we will have a little bit more freedom during the week, which is also awesome! OT is still going well, but it has taken Addy a lot longer to adjust to the environment of the therapy room and all of the equipment. Renee, the occupational therapist, has been so patient with Addy, and swears up and down that she is a joy to work with! She only gets about 45 good minutes out of her before she starts to lose focus and starts grabbing the keys and heading for the door. Totally cute, and slightly embarrassing at the same time.

To show our appreciation for our therapists and all the hard work they've been putting in with Addy, and will continue to put in with her, I ordered them bracelets from The Lucky Fin Project! (I also ordered two more shirts for me and Nolan, a "Lucky Fins Rock" shirt for big brother, and a new messenger bag that I am obsessed with!) At the end of the session today, I handed Addy the little bracelet and told her to give it to Renee. She wobbled across the mat and handed it to Renee. As I explained what it was and where it came from, Renee's eyes welled up with tears. She was so touched that we thought of her, and was so excited to learn about the LFP! She hugged us both, thanking us over and over, and vowed to wear it always. Spreading LFP love always makes me happy!

I'm getting a much needed night off of mommy duty tonight, which I am both excited about and nervous at the same time! I know that the kiddos will be fine with Daddy, Keegan probably won't even notice I'm gone. It's hard finding a balance between being the 24-7 mom and taking time for myself without feeling guilty, something I am really trying to work on for myself and for the kids. I know they need time away from me just as much as I need time away from them. So bring on the cocktails! If it takes me a while to update again, it's probably because I'll still be recovering from the cocktails...it takes this mama a lot longer to recover than it did when I was in my prime!

Until then, if you'd like to order your very own Lucky Fin Project bracelets or other goodies, head over to The Lucky Fin Project and donate to a wonderful cause!

                     

                                

Working Like A Dog

This little girl has been working overtime. She had her one year shots, started Occupational Therapy, continued with PT...and has started WALKING! Yep...we now have two kids walking which means double trouble! Even the dogs have run for the hills. All of this coupled with teething means our happy baby girl has been pretty miserable lately. Between the ice cubes, frozen yogurt bites, and doses of medicine and cold wash cloths...we catch a peek of our happy girl. For the most part, it's lots of snuggles and tooth watching! 

Big Strong Girl

Two weeks ago on a Wednesday morning, I woke up with a nervous pit in my stomach. I scurried around picking up the clutter, shuffling the piles of crap from room to room, and chugging more coffee than I needed. It was the day of Addy's first physical therapy session and I was a wreck. I didn't know what to expect. After the evaluation and receiving the reports that had wrong information, and seemed a little short sided, I was amping myself up for a fight with whoever walked through the door. 

At exactly noon, our buzzer buzzed alerting us to the arrival of the therapist. Keegan was shuffled into his room with a picnic and the promise of a park trip if he was a good boy, and I stared at the door nervously awaiting the arrival of what I was sure was going to be a woman I would want to punch in the face. I was completely wrong. 

Liz showed up with two boxes of toys, and a giant bouncy ball. She had a warm smile on her face, and comfy clothes on, ready to work with Addy. She put down all of her gear and introduced herself, and instead of putting her hand out, embraced me in a reassuring hug. She slipped off her sandals and pulled on a pair of socks and got down in the floor with Addy. She got into her box of tricks and started pulling out toys, fake food and buckets and trains and bouncy balls. She was soft, she was gentle, she waited for Addy to accept her. About 10 minutes into the session, Addy crawled over and offered Liz a bite of a Cheerio, and I knew that we were going to be just fine. 

Liz was impressed with how much Addy was capable of, saying the reports she was given didn't give her enough credit for where she was at developmentally. She asked me questions about different stages and when Addy reached them, all while working with Addy in ways Addy didn't even realize she was working. It looked like playing, just with a little more structure to it. Liz told me that working Addy's trunk muscles would help her stabilize and be able to balance more easily. I had questions for her about Addy's ability to walk, and whether or not it would be difficult and Liz reassured me that she would be walking in no time. She also agreed with us that preventative PT was a great option for Addy, which was great to hear. She gave us some homework to work on, and some stretches for Addy's neck (her muscles on the right side of her neck are tight from trying to crawl and look up, something I never thought a limb difference would have an affect on), and told us that she would see us the next week. With the first session over, and meeting our wonderful therapist Liz, I knew that Addy was in good hands, and that having her in physical therapy was not only the right decision, but the best decision. I am so thankful to have Liz in our lives, and to know that we are doing what is best for our big strong girl.

Working on standing from a raised-seated position

That was two weeks ago. Since then, Addy has had another session, and Liz was amazed with how much progress Addy made in just a week's time. She is pulling herself up on everything, lowering herself to the floor without falling over, and even standing unassisted for 10 seconds or more at a time! She is learning to use her little arm to stabilize herself and pull herself up on things so that she is able to utilize her left hand for hold or grabbing, something she hadn't quite figured out before therapy started. 

Seeing her growth in just a weeks time has made me realize how lucky we are to have Addy in our lives. Not only has she amazed us on a daily basis as she has figured things out and shown us how capable she is, but she has inspired us in so many ways. A year ago, I had so many worries and questions, and so far Addy has answered them all in ways I couldn't have imagined. With her first birthday only days away, her arrival into this world has been on my mind quite a bit. I am in such a different place now than I was, and I have Addy to thank for that. Yes, I still get frustrated with people's reactions to Addy's limb difference, and I am sure I will continue to. And yes, I will continue to worry and have more questions as Addy conquers milestones and meets new challenges, but she has proven to us that she can figure it out. We can figure it out, all of us, as a family. With all the love and support this little girl has in her life, there won't be anything she can't accomplish. 

Working hard for those Cheerios

Thomas the Train exercises while standing with her back to the couch to improve her core muscles