Addy Grace

Addy Grace

Friday, March 27, 2015

Addy's Big Debut: Sharing Our Story


The day Addy was born, I was filled with anxiety. I felt alone. I felt like I had failed her already. It wasn't until I found the Lucky Fin Project that I truly began to feel a sense of peace about Addy's limb difference. I found families with children just like Addy, accomplishing anything they set their minds to, and I felt peace. I spoke with mothers who's experiences were similar to mine, and I felt relief. We shared our fears and hopes and we felt a sense of community. I swore that I would take my experiences and turn them into a positive, no matter how long it took to make happen...and on Wednesday morning, I accomplished that goal.

A local news channel was contacted by the parent of one of the students working on Addy's 3D hand. They wanted to come to the high school and interview us on the experience, and tell Addy's story. To say I was nervous would be kind, I was freaking out...but I knew that this would be a great opportunity to showcase Addy and the hard working students who created her hand. I planned to wear all of my Lucky Fin gear in the hopes of them getting a little free advertising as well! Three birds with one stone, right? 

We showed up to the high school and Addy led the way to Mr. Daniels' room, knowing her boyfriends weren't far away. I thought I was nervous, but Mr. Daniels was pacing and already turning red...the camera and reporter nowhere in sight! Addy was happy to be amongst the men in her life, so she chased them around as we waited. Ali Hoxie showed up, the one woman show for the day, toting a large camera bag and a smile that lit up the room. Addy was immediately comfortable with her, demanding to be picked up and snuggled. They were fast friends as soon as Ali handed her the microphone! She explained the plans, and began setting up her equipment, and I could see both the students and Mr. Daniels get even more nervous and antsy at the sight of the camera.

I began going over all of the information I wanted to share in my head, trying to figure out the best way to word things without spontaneously bursting into a sobbing mess. Ali positioned the camera, and we were ready to go. I took a deep breath...and we got started. 

After my interview, Ali interviewed both Mr. Daniels and the students. I stood off the side, snapping pictures, chasing Addy, and listening as they spoke about their experience helping my daughter. I was in awe. These are big, burly, high school football players talking about how exciting and touching the experience was for them. It was all I could do to keep it together. 

When it was all said and done, we thanked Ali for taking the time to hear Addy's story and for doing such a great interview. I was pretty sure the story would be shown from a positive perspective, and not a sob story about a girl with one hand...yay! She told us the segment would air at six o'clock that evening, so all that was left to do was to wait and see the final product. 

Just like in Cinderella, the clock struck the magical hour and our story aired. Within minutes of showing, I was flooded with texts, phone calls, and messages from family and friends congratulating us on the story. I showed Keegan, who was both excited to see his mama and sister on television, and a little salty about not being involved. We Facetimed the husband, who from Atlanta, had tears in his eyes as he watched our daughter's story play on television for thousands of people to see. It was an amazing experience, and then it turned into a truly incredible experience. 

My phone buzzed, alerting me that the blog's Facebook page had received a message from a girl named Britney. As I read her message my eyes filled with tears. She had seen Addy's story and reached out to assure me that Addy would do amazing things in her life and shock everyone with all she accomplishes. She told me she knew this  because she is 23 years old, and was born without her right hand. She saw my shirt during the interview, got online, and found The Lucky Fin Project. She found an amazing community of people, just like her, because of the news story. And just like that, almost two years after finding the LFP family, I helped someone else find them as well. 

The segment was posted on the news channel's Facebook page, and I have watched in utter disbelief and as the number of views continue to grow, and the comments flood in. So many people showing support for both our daughter, and the school for taking on such a heart warming project. More messages of people finding the LFP family, and even a family who spotted my shirt and gave the Lucky Fin Project their own shoutout! The last time I checked, the video had over 36,000 views and counting. That's an astounding number of people that Addy's story has reached! 

We cannot thank the people involved enough. To Mr. Daniels and the students at Van Buren, thank you for taking on the project and continuing to create hands for our girl. Thank you for taking the time to get to know us, and for looking out for Addy, and letting her steal your keys and drag you around by the finger. To our friends and family, thank you for your continued love and support. Twenty months ago, I was a mess, hardly able to say "limb difference" without becoming hysterical. I could not have gotten to where I am today without each and every one or you assuring me that Addy would do amazing things. And thank you to everyone who shared the story on social media, you've helped share our message of love, acceptance, and celebrating differences further than I ever imagined would be possible. This is just the beginning for Addy, and I know that she will continue to inspire and amaze people for years to come! 

From the bottom of our hearts, our deepest thanks. 


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